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从心出发。把握当下。

老鹰 December 27, 2007

Filed under: Challenge,Dreams — applenix @ 10:53 pm

    老鹰是最长寿的鸟类, 大概可以活七十年, 但是到它四十岁时, 会面临一个生命挑战的历程. 因为这时的老鹰, 爪子已经老化, 不能再猎物了; 而且老化的羽毛多又密, 翅膀变得沉重, 无法自在飞翔, 而鹰啄也是又长又弯, 不能够轻巧啄物. 如果继续维持这样的状况, 它只有等死; 或者, 选择另一个痛苦的更生过程.

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     这时的老鹰如果想要持续生命, 必须努力飞到山崖边, 筑巢居住150. 其间以啄猛烈击打岩石, 让老化的啄脱落, 到新啄长出时, 再把旧爪和身上的羽毛一根根啄掉, 以便重新生长, 等到新的羽毛和尖爪长好了, 老鹰便可以再次展翅飞翔, 重新获得三十的新生命 !

 

爱过总比没爱好 December 21, 2007

Filed under: Love & Relationship — applenix @ 2:51 pm

依稀记得曾经买过一本吴若权的书《爱过总比没爱过好》 ,但是已经遗失了,里头说:

“不要因为害怕分离,就不肯相聚。也不要因为或许会分手,就不敢相爱。爱情,和人生中许多事情一样  —- 过程比结果重要,爱过总比没爱好。”

半年前又再度分手,真的有想过那就别爱算了。昨天和朋友和咖啡,讲起感情,永远是聊不完的话题。呵呵。到现在朋友问说为什么当初会分手,我也说不出个所以来。

朋友问:“当初分手时,他说因为没有感觉了,所以不能和你继续在一起。你能接受咩?背后肯定还有别的理由。为什么不问清楚?”

我说:“如果问了好几次,他都选择不说,都只是一样的答案,那你会怎么做?”

他答:“那就 move forward your life 啊!”

我说:“我就是选择了 move forward 呀。: ) 因为既然他已做了选择,答案是什么已经不再重要。”

朋友:“…… ” 

不过朋友给了我一个很真心的 Feedback 。他说也许是因为我对周遭的人都不够细心。我想是吧。我相信有一天,我的“他”也是会出现的。因为我选择相信爱:“爱,是滋润两个人一起过一辈子的养分。”它会为心里有爱的人存在。

 

Energy Flows Where The Attention Goes

Filed under: Dreams — applenix @ 12:58 pm

Whether you think you can or you can’t, you’re right either way.

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Why not focus your attention to what you can have?

 

The Giving Tree – Are you a Giver or Taker? December 13, 2007

Filed under: Love & Relationship,Uncategorized — applenix @ 12:16 pm

Have you heard about a story call “The Giving Tree”?

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This story is a short moral tale about a relationship between a young boy and a tree in a forest. The tree and the boy become best friends.

The tree always provides the boy with what he needs: vines to swing from, shade to sit under, apples to snack on, branches to build a house. As the boy grows older and older he requires more and more of the tree. The tree loves the boy very much and gives him anything he asks for.

In the ultimate act of self-sacrifice, the tree lets the boy cut her down so the boy can build a boat in which he can sail. The boy leaves the tree, now a stump.

Many years later, the boy, now an old man, returns and the tree says “I have nothing left to give you”. The boy replies  that all he needs is a quiet place to sit and rest as he awaits death. The tree happily obliges.

 

Dare to Dream December 10, 2007

Filed under: Dreams — applenix @ 1:08 pm

Do you have dreams?

Oprah Winfrey says: The biggest adventure you can ever take is to live the life of your dreams.

Since year 2002 after I graduated from National University of Singapore (NUS), I have been searching for my little world, where I can have my dreams come true. I realise I always can not focus. Always blaming why I can not discover my little world. And now I know why…..

What about you? Are you on the path way to have your dreams come true? By when, in 2 years time or 5 years? If there’s no timeline for it, ask yourself honestly, why wait?